With a constant smile and a warm greeting, he sold spices, fruit preserves, homemade noodles in the local Amish farmer’s market. No one was certain of his age, or even his last name.
He was known as Grandpa Jake.
I loved shopping there. He sold his spices in small, hand-labeled plastic packets mounted on a simple peg board.
On this day, I was looking for a small quantity of bay leaf.
I told him that I only use it in certain soups and stews and ended up wasting a lot of it.
He smiled and asked if I knew about bay leaf tea, claiming that with a little honey and cinnamon, was “simply wonderful, soothing, and very therapeutic.”
One week later, Grandpa Jake was gone. He complained to a neighboring vendor in the market that he did not feel well. At the hospital, they found that he had a congestive heart and fluid in his lungs.
He passed away a few hours later. The hospital staff honored his living will, there was no attempt to resuscitate.
Many of his fellow market vendors attended the traditional Amish funeral. Dressed in white in a handcrafted pine casket, he was honored in his home; rows of horse and buggies parked in the front yard.
Long tables at the entry held the straw hats of his peers, a measure of respect. Prayers were said. A simple meal was served. Friends and family dug his grave, marked by a plain concrete headstone.
And that was it. There was no obituary in the local newspaper, no photographs are permitted in their culture.
His market inventory is being sold off, profits going to family.
I stopped by to purchase a few items. Apple butter, homemade preserves, hot sauce.
And just a little more bay leaf.
Brewed with a cinnamon stick and a bit of honey, it is delightful.
And it will always remind me of this gentle man and his sweet spirit.
Rest in peace, Grandpa Jake.
Simply beautiful, Van. I will have to try that! I love tea!
It works better if you simmer it slowly, Kelly, maybe 15-20 minutes. Except for the cinnamon stick, there isn’t much color…but the tangy flavor is so interesting. Thanks. 💕
How many bay leaves do you use? Sounds good!
I used 2 medium bay leaves and a 3 inch cinnamon stick in about 12 oz. of water. Simmered for 15 minutes, then added honey. ☺
Thanks, Van! Anxious to try this! xo
I love tea too and I do the same thing. I also add just a little lemon, it makes the flavor even more interesting!
Zaria
Thanks for that tip, Zaria. ☺
Funny how the seemingly simplest things in life can evoke such powerful memories. This was such a sweet one, thank you for sharing this beautiful homage to someone who probably didn’t know the impact he made on others.
That has to be true, Stephanae, he was one of those simple, unassuming folks that we all take for granted. His welcoming presence had such an impact. ❤️
Funny I don’t know grandpa Jake but this just pricked my eyes. I have to try this tea. Lovely post Van
Thanks, Jacqueline.💘 I did some research, and bay leaf tea has some amazing healthful properties. Who knew ? ☺
What a wonderful story! And now I want to try the tea.
Thanks, Jane. It is a surprising, interesting flavor. ☺
This is a beautiful, yet simple story that honors Grandpa Jake.
Thanks, Vic. All things simple…seems to fit this lovely man. ❤️
A tender tribute. For what it’s worth, we are digging out self-seeded bay trees all the time
Very nice. I really wasn’t sure where they were plentiful. ☺
Oh to be remember in such a way as this, would be all that one could ask for ❤️
Such kind words…thanks so much. I agree. 💝
What a wonderful tribute, Van. I will give this a go. We have a bay tree in the garden; one of the first things we planted. Use it a lot. Have all the ingredients on hand.
I’m so surprised that pretty much no one as yet has known of/tried bay leaf as a tea. Interesting ? Let me know what you think, Fiona. ☺
What a beautiful and tender tribute, Van. I’m sick in bed with a cold, wishing I had a little bay leaf tea right now. It sounds wonderful. I just might have to send the hubby to the store 🙂
Oh, no. That not so “common” cold. Ugh. Let me know if you try the tea. Feel better soon, Diana. 💘
I love to read what you write. Do you have published books, Van by the River?
No, I don’t Linda, but thanks for the compliment. 💖
This is such a sweet tribute to Grandpa Jake..May his soul rest in peace.
Bay leaf tea is really therapeutic. I sometimes make it, too….
So glad to hear that you know of it, Maniparna. You’re the first here that is familiar with it. ☺ Thanks. 💝
You are welcome, if you want it to be a bit spicy, you can add a pinch of ground cinnamon as well… 🙂
What a lovely post x
Thanks, Lisa. ❤️
Gulp. That’s made me lumpy, throat wise, this early morning. Lovely post indeed Van. Off to pick some bay leaves.
Thanks, Geoff. Sorry for the lump in the throat, but you have bay leaves. ☺
I do, loads
What a tender tribute to Grandpa Jake. I’ve had tea with bay leaves before but have had it for a few years now. Thanks for the reminder.
You’re most welcome. Thanks for the kind compliment, Bernice. ❤️
A lovely post! So full of sentiment and beautiful memories! Thank you!
My pleasure, Lynn. 💖
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So sad about this gentle soul but so grateful that he touched your life in a small way that will endure. God rest his soull.
Thanks, George. ❤️
Lovely memories.
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